Our First Fight: The Marriage of Business
They say not to start a business with a friend.
On the verge of exhaustion, stress, and extreme questioning of our venture, we started thinking “they” were right.
We said we’d blog about everything, so I guess that means the really rough times, too. There were tears, on more than one occasion, during our few days in Asheville together. In the car. On a stranger’s couch. It wasn’t pretty.
I should preempt this by saying that Shannon and I are usually very amiable people. And we have an incredible respect for each other. We disagree sometimes, but in a healthy way. We know that two opinions make our business better, and there haven’t been many hurt feelings in our partnership.
But when you care about something so deeply, it can bring out both the best and the worst in you.
So instead of replaying the details (that seems far less important now), I’ll say what I learned.
Partnership is hard. It’s like family. You love them and you feel comfortable disagreeing with them. Maybe too comfortable.
But partnership can also make everything 100 times easier. Over the last six months, we’ve gotten nothing but “no” or no response to the hundreds of e-mails we’ve sent out about sustainable fabric.
Despite it, when everyone else said “no,” Shannon and I told each other “yes.” Because if we did it together, then it was possible.
The relationship we have with each other is unlike any other. It has nothing to do with money, or business, or control. It has everything to do with two very passionate people, trying to take the best route possible towards making the world a little bit better. And you have to be prepared to fight to make that dream come true.
At the end of the day, our blowup was a good thing. We walked away from it, still loving each other, and knowing that we will only be a stronger partnership because of it.
So, we won’t say things are always awesome and they never suck. But with the lows come the highs, and I can most definitely say that a few tears are worth sharing this incredible experience with someone you will always have a special bond with.
Because none of this would be worth it without someone you love. And “One of Us” Revolution just doesn’t have the same ring. {r}
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